Buy first or Sell first?

What's a unicorn got to do with Real Estate?  Read on to find out! 

This question is one of the biggest ones I get when I sit down with clients, and that is whether it’s better to buy first or sell their current home first. 

Even if new clients aren’t thinking this through; especially in fluctuating markets this is definitely something that should be given careful consideration.  

There’s no one size fits all answer, but there are definitely ways to figure out the best answer for you.  In no particular order, here are some things to consider when mulling this question over….

What’s your risk tolerance?

If you’re comfortable carrying two properties at once (even for a short period), buying first may be an option. However, if carrying two mortgages is not financially feasible or too stressful, selling first ensures you know exactly what to budget for your purchase.   

How do you judge your risk tolerance anyway?  Here are some questions to ask yourself: 

    How is your financial stability?  If you lost your job, would you have enough savings to cover your expenses for a few months, or do you manage paycheck to paycheck.  If you have a healthy emergency fund and a steady income, you might tolerate more financial risk, like carrying two mortgages temporarily.  If unexpected expenses (like staging costs, temporary housing, or bridge financing fees) would put a strain on your finances, selling first might be the safer option.

    What is your emotional Response to Uncertainty – How would you respond to this? Imagine you’ve booked a vacation but don’t yet have a hotel reservation. Are you comfortable finding one last-minute, or does the uncertainty stress you out? If you need things planned in advance, you might struggle with the unpredictability of buying before selling.  

At the time I’m writing this, the world is an uncertain place.  We are feeling it in real estate as many buyers are sitting on the sidelines just waiting to see what’s going to happen.  Imagine you buy a new home first, but your current home sits on the market longer than expected.  Would you stay calm knowing it will sell eventually, or would sleepless nights and stress take over? If uncertainty makes you anxious, selling first could be the smarter choice.

    How do you invest?  Do you prefer putting your money into high-risk stocks or experiment with cyber currency for big potential returns, or do you stick with safer options like fixed rate GICs? If you naturally gravitate toward safer investments, you may prefer selling first to avoid financial strain.  

    Decision-Making Style  - When making a big purchase like a car, do you research for months and test-drive multiple options, or do you go with your gut and buy the first one that feels right? If you take time to make careful decisions, you might be more comfortable selling first to know exactly what you can afford.  

Do you think you’ll be more comfortable if you view 10-15 homes to find the perfect home, or can you make quick decisions under pressure? If you like to explore many options before deciding, buying first might be best so you don’t feel rushed after selling. But if you’re confident making fast decisions, selling first can work because you’ll be able to move quickly when the right home comes up.  You’ll be making some fast decisions in real estate that may make you uncomfortable anyway, so this is important to think through

    Past Experiences with Risk -- Have you ever taken a big risk—like starting your own business or moving to a new city without a job lined up? If you’ve handled uncertainty well in the past, you might feel confident in buying before selling.  

Have you handled big financial risks well in the past, like buying an investment property or flipping a home? If so, you may be comfortable with the short-term risk of owning two homes. But if past financial risks caused stress or losses, a safer approach—selling first—might suit you better.

How particular are you about your next home?

If you have very specific needs—like a certain school district, a unique property style, or a hard-to-find neighborhood—you may want to buy first. Otherwise, you risk selling your current home and not being able to find the right one when you’re ready.

How reverse engineering may help you predict how long it will take you to find a specific home

Smart realtors will take your needs and wants and look back in history to analyze the sales data over the past few years.  Going back 5 years you can apply your criteria to a reverse property search to find out:

    How many homes like that have sold in the past

    What prices did they sell for

    Did they sell in competition because they are rare?

    What did they look like inside

    How often do they come up for sale

This way you can give yourself a ‘reality check’.   It helps to know a few things that just make sense, like:

    In a low turnover neighbourhood or condo where people live a long time it’s less likely to find something sell that’s renovated

    In a demand school district homes will be more expensive than in the catchment districts that border it

    New construction may sell for a higher per sq ft price than resale

    A renovated home will cost more than an unrenovated home

A good example of this is a reverse search I did for a senior looking to rent in a specific condo building.  A reverse search showed that there are very few condos that rent privately (2-3 every 4 years)   Therefore it’s unlikely a condo in their budget would be available when they wanted to move.  That way they could adjust their plans.  

What’s the market like? 

For many people, the sale price of their current home determines what they can afford to buy next. If the market is in flux, it makes sense to sell and buy in the “same market” – that way market conditions will benefit you (whatever they are) on both transactions.    

How do you know what the market is like? 

Because news articles may focus on the negative & real estate can be very specific to neighbourhood it’s best to talk to a realtor that has listings, is active with buyers and sellers and is familiar with your area.  Or has been recommended to you.    

In slow markets, if you’re like most people you don’t want a realtor that will make unrealistic promises just because they are hungry for business.  

If you're house hunting in Toronto, there are a couple of other realtors that write excellent blogs with market information; many of these have articles on a variety of topics going back years.  

Toronto Realty Blog - if you can get through his style of writing (long wind-ups to the meat & a bit of pretention) there good information

The Refined Real Estate Team Blog - Jeff is a colleague at my brokerage and his analytical style of examining the market shows his financial background.  He looks at thing with not only a "what happened" but "what did it feel like" view.  His focus is really on central Toronto. 

The BREL team Blog - another central Toronto blog; but I find the real estate articles are on a wide range of topics and written in a straightforward style.  

Are you unicorn hunting?

If your dream home is a rare find—such as a waterfront property, a century home, or a condo in a specific building—waiting to sell before buying might mean missing out.  In this case, you may choose to buy first;  prepare your home when you start your search, so once you’ve put in an offer so you can list right away.  

If you’re unicorn hunting, a reverse engineering approach may be helpful.  It’s also helpful to keep an open mind and look not only at a 100% unicorn, but see if a 50% horse/50% unicorn may work for you as well.    Or perhaps you can buy a horse and transform it over time to your personal unicorn! 

Buying before selling 

Allows you to take your time finding the perfect home without feeling pressured to settle. You can move in at your own pace and avoid temporary housing. However, this approach carries financial risk—you may need to qualify for two mortgages or rely on bridge financing. If your current home doesn’t sell as quickly as expected, you may be stuck covering two mortgages for longer than anticipated.

Pro Tip: If you're interested in what homes are selling for to do research, my website has a 'sold' feature that's really helpful.  You can set up a property search that will only send you homes that have sold in your area, community or neighbourhood.   It's a great way to stay on top of pricing! 

Just sign up here:

www.SueAnfang.com   You can even download a GPS enabled app to your phone that will bring up sold & available properties when you're out and about.


Selling first 

This eliminates the risk of carrying two mortgages and provides a clear budget for your next home. You’ll know exactly how much equity you have to work with, reducing financial uncertainty. However, it also means you might need temporary housing or feel pressured to buy quickly, which can lead to settling for a home that isn’t quite right.  

If you're interested in what homes are selling for in your area, my website has a 'sold' feature that's really helpful.  You can set up a property search that will only send you homes that have sold in your area, community or neighbourhood.   It's a great way to stay on top of pricing! 

Just sign up here:

www.SueAnfang.com   You can even download a GPS enabled app to your phone that will bring up sold & available properties when you're out and about.


Is Bridge Financing Right for You? 

Bridge financing is a short-term loan that helps cover the gap between buying a new home and selling your existing one. It can be a good option if you have firm closing dates that don’t align or if you need flexibility. However, bridge loans come with interest costs and eligibility requirements, so it’s essential to discuss this option with your mortgage advisor before deciding.

Pro tip: Have a backup plan

Whichever way you go, it’s smart to have a contingency plan. If you buy first, consider bridge financing or a rental option if your home doesn’t sell right away.  If you sell first, consider a long closing, or look into short-term rentals or family accommodations in case you need extra time to find your next home.

Ask an expert

While the answer may be different for everyone,  discussing your situation with a knowledgeable realtor can help you decide the best approach. If you have questions about your own situation, or if you’re helping a family member navigate a move, feel free to call me at 416-562-5002. My website blog and YouTube channel also have lots of helpful articles.

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Thinking of selling your home? Whether you're upgrading, downsizing, or just ready for a change, it's easy to focus on the sale price—but don’t forget the hidden costs that can take a bite out of your bottom line.

Here are 7 common expenses to budget for:

Realtor Fees – Typically split between the buyer’s and seller’s agents.

Legal Fees – Real estate lawyers are essential for transferring a properties title

Sales Tax – In Ontario, HST applies to your real estate fees

Mortgage Discharge & Prepayment Fees – You may face penalties for breaking your mortgage early.

Capital Gains Tax – Selling an investment property? Half your profit may be taxable at your income tax rate.

Updates & Repairs – Strategic improvements can increase your final sale price.


Selling isn’t just about the offer—it’s about what you walk away with. Planning ahead means fewer surprises and a more confident sale. 

Want help estimating your selling costs? Let’s talk—I'm happy to guide you through every step, and develop a plan that hits your goals! 

Here's more detail about each of the above items: 

What You Need to Know About Realtor Fees and HST When Selling Your Home

One of the biggest costs of selling a home in Ontario is **realtor fees**. What many sellers don’t realize is that there’s no standard commission rate—**realtor fees are fully negotiable**. That means it’s important to have an open conversation about what you’re paying and what services are included.

Under Ontario real estate rules, all services your agent agrees to provide must be **clearly written into your listing agreement**. Whether it’s staging, marketing, professional photography, or open houses—make sure it’s in writing, so expectations are clear on both sides.  

Realtor fees are usually split between the listing agent and the buyer's agent, but while there might be a 'norm' in a specific geographic region, there is no set division of fees.   It's worth a discussion with your realtor about what's normal in the area where you're selling to discuss the pros and cons of different fee levels, with an eye on your net and not necessarily the total fees. 

Another often-overlooked cost? HST on realtor commissions.  Realtor fees are subject to **13 percent HST** in Ontario. This is a tax that sellers pay on top of the commission at closing. While your agent handles this on their end for tax purposes, the cost comes directly from the sale proceeds.

If you're planning to list your home, be sure to factor in these costs so there are no surprises on closing day. A clear understanding of **real estate fees in Ontario** will help you make more informed financial decisions—and keep more of your equity.

Legal Fees

Depending on the complexity of the sale, the legal fees are usually for transferring the title, paying for out of pocket costs like mortgage discharges & land transfer fees and the administration of all the things it takes to transfer ownership.  Expect to pay more if the sale is more complex; like a commercial property.   

Don't forget there are adjustments on closing - like pro-rating pre-paid property taxes etc; the lawyer handles all of these things.  And if a deal goes wrong you may need a specialist like a litigator to take over. 


Mortgage Discharge & Prepayment Fees 

Depending on your mortgage, you may face penalties for breaking your mortgage early; or pre-paying it fully in a downsize.  Penalties are normally around 3 months mortgage interest, but can vary by lender, so make sure you check.  


What Taxes Do You Really Pay When You Sell Property in Ontario?

In addition to the HST on the realtor fees, If you're thinking about selling a home in Ontario, one of the first questions you might consider is: What taxes do I need to pay?

Let’s start with the good news. If you’re selling your primary residence, you don’t have to pay capital gains tax. And since land transfer tax only applies when you buy a property—not when you sell—there’s no land transfer tax either when you’re selling.

That’s a big relief for most Ontario homeowners.

But what if you own more than one property? Can you have more than one primary residence? The answer is yes, technically you can—but only one at a time can be claimed as your primary residence for any given tax year. This is where it’s smart to get some advice, especially if you’ve owned a cottage or second home for a long time and there’s been a big increase in value.

Now, if you're selling an income property—like a rental unit, or a cottage you've listed on Airbnb—capital gains tax does come into play. In Canada, capital gains are taxed on 50 percent of the profit, and that amount is added to your income for the year. So the tax you pay depends on your income tax bracket.

But here’s something many sellers don’t realize: if the CRA considers that your Airbnb or cottage has shifted from residential to commercial use, they may apply HST to the sale price. That’s right—you could owe HST when you sell. That can be a major and unexpected cost.

And if you're a non-resident, or if the property is held in a corporation or trust, other taxes or rules may apply.

So what’s the bottom line?

Whether you’re selling a condo, your longtime family home, or an investment property, it’s worth speaking with a tax accountant before listing. Tax rules can be complicated, and it’s better to understand what you’re walking into before you sell.

Knowing the difference between capital gains tax, land transfer tax, and other possible tax surprises can help you make smarter decisions—and keep more of your hard-earned equity.

 Home preparation costs - how do you set a budget?

If you're getting ready to sell your home in Ontario, one of the first steps is setting a **pre-listing budget**. But what exactly should that budget cover?

Most homeowners know to expect some costs before listing. Common items include:

  • Minor repairs
  • Updates to key areas like kitchens or bathrooms
  • Fresh paint
  • Landscaping for curb appeal
  • Decluttering 
  • junk removal

But the real key isn’t just spending money—it’s spending it strategically. A good realtor will help you create a tailored plan that focuses on updates that matter to buyers in your market.

Real life story:  one of my clients thought they needed to buy out their hot water tank rental before selling. That would’ve cost over \$1,000. But in most Toronto home sales, buyers assume the rental—so we skipped the buyout and saved the money.

When you’re preparing to sell, it's easy to overspend in the wrong places. With proper guidance, you can invest in improvements that will help your home stand out and sell faster—without wasting your budget.


Want more home selling tips? Visit my YouTube channel or reach out to chat about your personalized prep plan!




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 Are you a particular buyer?  I have what may be the best value condo in Scarborough for sale right now!  

I know there are quite a few condos for sale right now, so if you're thinking of buying you have a lot of choice - and if you're like most people you want to make sure you get a lot of bang for your buck.  And the sellers have done an amazing job making sure this condo is perfectly move-in ready for the next buyer. 

If you're looking for a spacious, updated condo in one of Scarborough’s most walkable and convenient neighbourhoods? Welcome to 121 Ling Road, where modern comfort, thoughtful layout, and community-focused living come together in one beautifully maintained package.

This 2-bedroom, 2-bathroom condo is ideal for first-time buyers or downsizers.  With recent upgrades, west-facing sunset views, and a well-managed building loaded with amenities, this unit stands out among the others in the current condo market.

A Kitchen That Truly Stands Out

One of the biggest features of this condo is the updated kitchen.  It's even bigger and has more storage than many kitchens in homes I've sold over the years.  Designed with both function and style in mind, it features:

  • Abundant cabinetry for storage including a pantry cupboard
  • Ample counter space with beautiful black galaxy granite counters
  • Modern led lighting - the kitchen is beautifully bright
  • A large breakfast bar ideal for casual meals or entertaining
  • Integrated coffee bar

Whether you enjoy cooking elaborate meals or simply want a well-equipped and welcoming space to enjoy your coffee, this kitchen delivers.

Check out the video tour! 



A Smart and Comfortable Layout

Unlike many units in the building, the second bedroom in this condo is thoughtfully designed with the entrance off the hallway rather than the main living area. This allows for more privacy and flexibility in how the space is used.  The second bedroom has a large window and closet, too! 

The primary bedroom offers a walk-in closet complete with built-in organizers, providing excellent storage and keeping your space tidy and functional. Both bathrooms have been updated and offer clean, modern finishes.

Other highlights include a full-sized laundry pair with extra storage space and a large, west-facing balcony that provides unobstructed views and incredible sunsets and fits a patio set.

2 Full Bathrooms

It's really rare that a condo this size has two bathrooms - and both are updated!  

Move-In Ready Condition

This condo is so tastefully decorated, with thoughtful choices making it truly move-in ready. Whether you’re a buyer who wants to avoid renovations or a downsizer looking for a turnkey lifestyle, this unit meets the mark.

Amenities That Add Real Value

121 Ling Road is a very well-managed condominium with a reputation for its amenities and community-focused atmosphere. Residents enjoy access to:

* Outdoor pool

* Recently updated his-and-hers gyms

* Party room with kitchen

* Library

* Games room

* Craft room

* Beautifully landscaped grounds

The building also hosts social activities and offers a lovely sense of community not often found in high-rise living.


Located in the The Heart of West Hill, Scarborough

Located in the West Hill neighbourhood, this condo offers excellent access to everything you need, all within walking distance. West Hill is known for its mix of urban convenience and natural beauty, making it a desirable location for a variety of buyers.

Shopping and Services Nearby

Just across the street from 121 Ling Road, you’ll find a full plaza with:

* Food Basics

* Shoppers Drug Mart

* Cob's Bread

* Walk in medical clinic

* Bulk Barn

* M&M Meats

* Dry cleaners & more

No car? No problem. This location offers true walkability for day-to-day errands.


Easy Access to Transit

121 Ling Road is well-connected by public transit. Multiple TTC bus routes are nearby, and the Guildwood GO Station is just a short drive or bus ride away, offering quick and easy service to downtown Toronto and beyond.


Parks and Nature

If you love the outdoors, you’ll enjoy the proximity to some of Scarborough’s best green spaces:

* Morningside Park

* Colonel Danforth Park

* Guild Park and Gardens

* The nearby Lake Ontario waterfront trails


These local parks provide excellent options for walking, biking, and enjoying nature.


Who will buy this condo? 

When I list a property, I always think, "Who would be the perfect buyer"?

This condo is especially well-suited to:

  • Downsizers: Looking for low-maintenance living with plenty of space, full-sized appliances, a big kitchen and excellent building amenities.  
  • First-Time Buyers: Who want a functional layout, great location, and move-in ready finishes at an affordable price point.
  • Retirees: Seeking a walkable neighbourhood and a building with a strong sense of community

The hard facts:

  • 965 sq ft 
  • 2 bedrooms
  • 2 full bathrooms
  • 1 car parking
  • storage locker
  • 18th floor with western unobstructed views

Want to see it in person?  Give me a call at 416-562-5002

Interested in other 2 Bedroom Scarborough condos?  Start your search here:  https://www.suesellsscarborough.com/most-popular-home-searches/2-bedroom-condos-in-toronto

Interested in searching homes in West Hill?  https://www.suesellsscarborough.com/Communities/West%20Hil





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Selling a home is about more than just square footage and location. In today’s competitive real estate market, presentation is everything. That’s where home staging comes in. Done right, staging can help your home stand out online, attract more buyers to showings, and even spark bidding wars. The best part? You don’t need a full renovation or a huge budget to stage your home effectively. With a little creativity and intention, you can transform your space into something that feels fresh, welcoming, and market-ready.

Here are some creative real estate staging ideas that can make your home feel irresistible to potential buyers:

1. Use Paint to Expand Space and Light

Paint is my client's secret weapon. The right colour reflects light even in a dark room, make rooms feel bigger, and can add the appearance of natural light to any space. 

Paint colours that sell:

Right now, I prefer neutral tones that don't read stark white, but instead are softer.  For greys which are still popular I prefer a warmer grey or pale taupe that can blend with both brown or grey toned furniture.  I enjoy a wall colour that has enough contrast to stand out from the trim to give a higher end look. Eggshell for the walls and semi-gloss for the trim makes both stand out.  Don't be fooled by the word 'white' name in the paint colours - to a paint brand white can look anything from beige to grey in my opinion! 

Behr Spun Wool for walls

Benjamin Moore Dove White walls and trim (it also gives good coverage over darker walls)

Benjamin Moore Simply White for trim

Benjamin Moore Chantilly Lace for trim (although coverage is not as good as Simply White & Dove White)

2. Create Character in a plain room

Changing a light fixture and painting a feature wall can turn a box into a showstopper with the right accessories.  Or a feature wall in a powder room can transform a space with peel-and-stick wallpaper, available on-line or in any home renovation store

4. Change Light fixtures & switchplates

Lots of homes I sell still have the builder basic light fixtures - see the picture below where we transformed a plain jane condo to a warm hygge space with a feature wall & Ikea light fixture.  


 A handyman can replace old "tongue' light switched to decor switches in an afternoon.

5.  Add lights where there are none

Did you know that you can find plug-in rechargeable lights on Amazon?  These wall mount like a picture and the bulbs remove for re-charging.  A great, inexpensive way to brighten any room.   The pink sconces below were in a home I purchased for a client.  They are rechargeable, with a bulb that is attached to the base by a magnet.  There's a great selection under $100.  Bonus is that if you keep them charged, they work if the power is out! 




6.  Use soft furnishings strategically

Have an outdated or loud piece of furniture that needs to stay for staging?  Neutralize it with throw pillows & strategically placed cosy throws: 



7. Bring in the light

Even though the room above had light sheers, removing the draperies & opening the blinds immediately created a bright, open space.   Replacing heavy drapes with sheer panels pushed to the side can add a finishing touch, too.

8. Stage the Closets

Don’t just stuff everything behind closed doors—buyers *will* look inside! Clear out clutter and stage closets to look spacious and organized. Use matching hangers, neatly folded linens, and a few well-placed baskets to suggest a lifestyle of ease and order.  Remove any clutter on the closet floors, too.

9.  Make it sparkle

A professional deep clean before you list is essential - buyers translate a clean home with a well kept one.

10.  Consider Scent

Our sense of smell is tied closely to emotion and memory.  Use scent to your advantage with subtle candles or diffusers.  I'm talking high-end, subtle scents that are not overpowering - not glade plug ins.  Avoid anything overpowering—you want clean, fresh, and inviting.  

Final Thoughts

Staging is about helping buyers visualize themselves living in your home. These creative ideas don’t require a huge investment, just a thoughtful approach and a little effort. By emphasizing your home’s strengths and creating inviting, memorable moments, you’ll be one step closer to that sold sign.


Looking for more inspiration or professional help with staging? Reach out today—we’d love to help make your home stand out! 415-562-5002

Enjoy transformation stories?  You can find some modest home glow-ups on my YouTube Channel here:

Before and After Transformations

See what my clients say about working with me here:

Sue Anfang Testimonials

You can find some of my impactful property videos here: 

Property Tours of home sold by Sue Anfang


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